Anderson

Let me tell you a little about Anderson, my youngest. He is 16 months old, and definately was not born early like his big brother! Anderson was 8lbs. 6oz., born at 39 weeks via c-sec. Big boy - imagine if I had gone another week!!! He is just a sweet little boy. He is definately a mamma's boy, too. He loves his big brother Jack and his daddy, too.

Anderson's favorite words are Mamma and Cacker (cracker). lol. He reminds me alot of Jack at this age, but I think he is more shy. Jack was a bit more independant. Lately he has a little temper, which is kinda funny, yet kinda worrysome. (already??) He cackles when he laughs and it is hilarious! Here are some pictures of my second little sweetie!

Wordless Wednesday

My South Korean tshirt - notice the heart where Seoul is. :)

God's timing

God's timing is PERFECT. That is my mantra for this adoption.
Ecclesiastes 3:11 He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the hearts of men; yet they cannot fathom what God has done from beginning to end. (NIV)

I know "our" Leah will come to us in His perfect timing. The waiting is so hard - unbelievable hard when I have my whole heart vested in this. I can imagine it will get harder as time goes on. To love someone you have never even "felt" growing inside is amazing - truly shows the beauty of love.

Thanks for all your sweet replies to my whining yesterday - I really needed it!!

Homestudy hold up

I am so sad. Our home visit which was supposed to be in 2 days has been put off for another 2 weeks because our social worker's sister in law just passed away and they are going out of state for her funeral for a week, and next week she is all backed up. I feel for her and her family for their loss, but at the same time I am so frustrated this homestudy is taking sooooo long. We have been at this for 3 months now. I can't get fingerprinted by the FBI until we get this homestudy to USCIS. Then we still have to wait for those to come back to them before our paperwork can be sent to Korea. I feel like we are never going to get our little girl. :(
I am very very upset. I see so many homestudies finishing up so fast. Why does mine have to be taking so long??? The holidays messed it up first, now this. Sigh.

Jack

I thought I would tell a little about my 4 year old, Jack Ross today!

Jack is my buddy. He is just the sweetest little boy. Very very energetic and funny, too. Jack was born 4 weeks early with underdeveloped lungs. He was 6lbs.4oz and spent 2 looong weeks in the NICU. The first time I saw him he had tubes all around him and he was on the ventilator. Poor little fella. I had a c-sec and they would not let me leave my room until the following day, so I spent the first 12 hrs. after he was born crying. (He was in the NICU by the time I had left surgery) The whole experience scared me to death, but he came home healthy and has always been a little fighter. We are very thankful for our Jack.

Jack loves dinosaurs and bugs. Dinosaurs the most! He goes to preschool two mornings a week and does really well there. He was recently a shepherd in the Christmas pagent at school and ran out to us in the audience halfway thru the play. lol. He has lots of funny little sayings and is just a joy to us. Here a a few pics! :)

Crazy crazy

Alrighty, I am way behind on my blog. We just got back from our visit from Georgia and now I am feverishly trying to unpack the mounds and mounds of suitcases, bottles, gifts and diapers. Plus I am trying to get ready for the homevisit on Thursday. So, I owe everyone a super great blog about our Christmas complete with pictures, but it may be awhile before I can manage that. Must go unpack. And where to put all the new toys?? Must also clean out a closet......
Hopefully tonight after the kiddos go to sleep I can catch up because I see lots of new blog entries from you all I want to read!!

Christmas with my family

We are visiting my Mom and sister in Georgia and having a wonderful time! I am tired , tired, tired though. We drove down late last night so the kids would sleep most of the way, got in at 2am and Jack and Anderson were so excited it took me until 3 to get them back to sleep. Then the little stinkers woke up at their usual early time. But, at least we did not have to endure much screaming from Anderson who does not like to be in his car seat for very long.
We went to visit my Dad and Grandma today. My Grandma has Alzheimers, but it was so good to see her. I am saddened by the illness she suffers. It has to be one of the most tragic things to watch a loved one endure. She does not know who I am anymore, but still knows who my Dad is. At least we have that.
Tomorrow we have Christmas Eve with my extended family. It will be so good to see them all.
So, if I don't get back on here before Christmas, Merry Christmas everyone! May you all be blessed this year.
I can't help but think about what next Christmas will bring for my family. Much joy and anticipation, I imagine!

State fingerprints

Yea our state fingerprints came back to the agency and look great. I was worried we would have to re-print because they were taking so long to get back to our social worker. One more little check for my list of things not to worry about. So our home visit will hopefully be next Thursday.
We are snowed in - I have some great pictures to share but have to get them downloaded onto this computer - more on that later!
I have to get Jack checked out by our pediatrician tomorrow - the checkups I had done back in the summer for them are too old now to use. This is crazy how all this is falling right around Christmas. I sure did not plan this well. This has been the craziest holiday ever!!!

How it went

Our second meeting went super - whew! She only asked us to clarify a few things from our autobiography. She was really nice and in a great mood. It did help that when she told us about her grandkids Daniel looked shocked and told her there was no way she could be a grandma. (and she does look really young!) Then I brought her homemade chocolate chip cookies. We buttered her up, alright!
She did not ask us any hard questions. Nothing about how we are incorporating Korean heritage into our lives or anything. I guess we answered her questions in our autobiography. I told her about how Jack and I watch Pororo on youtube, and she thought that was great, and said it would probably be reasuring to our Korean child to hear the langueage like that. :) And the home visit is in two weeks. Normally would be next week, but with Christmas things are moving more slowly. Oh and our fingerprints are still not back to her. I don't know what that is about. They should have been in her hands weeks ago. ??? I hope they don't need us to re-print or anything.
Then we had our LAST adoption required parenting class. By the end of the night Daniel and I were spent. Adoption overload, lol. It feels good to have the required classes under our belts. The head of the agency led our classes and when she left she told us to bring our babies by to visit her when we get home. (the only other time we will go to the agency is when we get our referral). Me and the other adoptive mom looked at her shocked. It was kinda like we were surprised someone was acknowledging we would actually be parenting a Korean baby. The other mom said "wow, you make it sound like it will be tomorrow!" The head agency lady laughed and said it feels like it will be an eternity now until we have our babies but it will happen. It just felt GOOD. :)
I now do have a different outlook on the whole homestudy. I am kinda seeing that they do want to approve adoptive couples, and are just on the lookout for red flags. I don't know why I was so nervous. One more visit to go then look out USCIS. I will be annoying you......

Second homestudy

Today we have our second homestudy visit. (finally) I am so nervous because I do not like being interviewed! I am afraid I will answer her questions all wrong. At the first visit on her question as to why I want to adopt internationally, I just teared up and could not even answer. Ugh. I think I have better answers today, and will try to just pretend she is a friend who does not hold the power of me getting to adopt in her hands. I know she is going to ask us how we have been incorporating more culture into our lives, as at the first meeting she told us we need to work on that. So we have been reading, watching Pororo (lol) and talking to Jack alot about Korea. I hope this all counts - no Korean festivals or markets around here to go to. So wish me calm nerves!!! They told me from the second meeting to the final home visit goes fast, so I am hoping she will come next Tues. for the final home visit. I want to get that done with. Oh and someone is cleaning our house Monday - perfect timing. (and a Merry Christmas to me!) I have someone clean our house about once every 6 weeks and it is heaven - i totally give up spending money for this luxery. I highly recommend! I guess some girls spa - i do this!
Wow I am wordy today. Then, after our second homestudy visit, we have our final education meeting. Long day! I am worried about leaving Anderson for so long, too because he is running a fever. Poor thing. But I can't reschedule anything, so hopefully a dose of motrin will help the little fella. I think he must have a virus. :(
I, of course, will tell you all about how it goes tomorrow.
Oh, and to Elizabeth, Olive's mommy, I am on pins and needles for a little more info. lol. thanks.
Happy Thursday friends!

A Monday

Well today was definately a Monday. Daniel tried to leave for work this morning to find that both our cars were broken into overnight and his GPS and some other valuables were taken. Well, actually we forgot to lock our cars, which we usually do, so they were just opened, no broken glass or anything. Nothing was gone from my car. I guess the crook was not interest in my two cowmooflage car seats. (whew) Our neighbors car doors were wide open, too. Bummer!! We are going to install a floodlight to turn on when motion is detected for out there - no garage.

On to happier notes, Jack and I made Christmas cookies and had lots of fun. Anderson napped thru the festivities, poor guy.

OH, and comment moderation is now permanently on, so if your comment does not immediately show up, it will. (unless you comment in another rambling language which i do not understand and am worried about what it says) - anyone know how to erase a comment?

These pictures were taken right before we figured our cars were broken into, and Anderson was going to get to help with the cookies, but then got to sleepy after we sorted thru everything....lol and yes, it was pillsbury all the way!!!

I-797C

Wow - First official piece of mail from the US Gov't today - our I-797C, Notice of Action. We do not have our fingerinting appt. yet, as they still have to receive our homestudy, but it says that is the next step. WOO-HOO. I was worried our i-600A did not get to the offices.
We have our second homestudy meeting set up for this week, and I am hoping she will do the third in-home visit right after Christmas so we can get this going.
I am just so excited for an official piece of mail from the Gov't saying they are aware we are adopting. Happy dance, happy dance.!!!

Second education meeting

Last night we had our second education meeting. Just one more to go next week - one more thing to check off on the long list of becoming adoptive parents, right? :)

It went really well. They actually had an adoptive mom come in to speak to us with her little 3 year old daughter adopted from China. ummmm....not really sure what she said. I pretty much was mesmerized by this beautiful little girl. I do know they adopted her with a hole in her heart that she had fixed about 3 months ago. So they went special needs. It was really neat to hear her story. ( I guess I must have listened!) And the best part - her name was Mia.

Copying a post from a few weeks back here in case you missed my first "Mia" encounter:
Blessings in store....


COOL NIGHT, Huh? :)

Thanks

For all your responses to my whiny post yesterday. They made me feel better! We started out with China, so that may be why I feel like my homestudy is taking long. I feel like I have been paperchasing for awhile......
But on to great news - CONGRATS to my bloggy friend Kelly on her referral of a beautiful baby boy they have named Max.
This is my first referral of a bloggy friend I have actually known before the referral, and I am so excited to get to hear all about it!! How's that for a Christmas present to remember?
And my other bloggy friend, Elizabeth is hosting an auction for an adorable Loopy from Pororo the Penguin. Go visit her and bid to benefit her Tenth Life for Kitties foundation. Pororo the peguin is an adorable Korean cartoon that is very popular in Korea.http://saintlouisfricks.blogspot.com/2009/12/loopy-auction.html

Yea for bloggy friends. :)

Second homestudy meeting

It is taking forever (or so i think) for us to have our second homestudy meeting. We had our first one almost 2 months ago. I did not realize our social worker had to have all our background checks in to interview us for our second meeting. (and I have checked around, it seems most social workers will do the second homestudy meeting without all this.) When I realized it about 3 weeks ago I rushed around getting them all in. But our social worker still does not have them all back yet. gRRRR..... She thinks she should have them this week - I hope so! If she gets them we can set up our meeting for next week. I just want this homestudy over with so we can keep things moving. Hurry up background checks, hurry up!!!
This feels like the longest homestudy ever.....
Someone tell me I am over-reacting and yours took longer....

Busy weekend

Oh my I worked myself into a tizzy all weekend. Moving rooms around, Christmas decorations, and cleaning out our disgusting disgusting basement laundry area. I am happy to announce, that, despite seriously pulling a muscle in my back, my house looks great, I have Christmas decorations up and I can now do laundry in a much cleaner environment.
We moved Daniel's office to our apartment in the basement because his friend that was renting it from us moved cities. So, now I get a whole room for the boys to play in. And my sunroom is now free of toys. I know some pictures would be great but that is what I want for Christmas, my own camera. Daniel uses our digital for his job. But, I am going to snag it from him later today to hopefully show some pics of our house. I got some cute car artwork at Target yesterday and put it up in my new playroom (which will be Jack and Anderson's bedroom when Leah comes home.)
I am so tired from the weekend!! But now I am so proud of my house. I only have one closet to clean out before the homestudy. whew......
What did you do this weekend?
P.s. - I feel so bad for the boys because they basically had to watch us clean and organize all weekend. I am taking them to see Santa today and to ride the Christmas train!

Dreams

Well last night we had our first adoption education meeting and it went really well. Honestly, I already knew much of what was spoken about, but we met another couple adopting from South Korea and that was awesome. They are a few months ahead of us in the process and were so nice. They have a 5 year old daughter they adopted from Russia. Another couple was adopting domestically.
Being an adoptee myself, I kinda felt like last night was a therapy session for me. It was reassuring to hear the director explain about how our adoptive child will feel and I felt myself thinking, yep, right on. That is exactly how I feel. Of course, international adoption will bring some different feelings out but some of it will be exactly the same. I think it is so neat that I will be able to share that bond with Leah, and really understand how she feels, at least in part. I think my being adopted is why my heart has always wanted to adopt.
Now onto my dreams. They are very vivid and always about adoption. Last night I was actually in Seoul, holding a little Korean baby boy walking into the place where I would meet his foster mom. It was so REAL. The little boy was tiny and squirmy and oh so cute. Odd it was a little boy, eh? I remember thinking in my dream "this is so awesome." Almost every other night since we started this adoption I have dreams involving it. How about you? When you were in the adoption process, (or now if you are like me) did you have dreams about your future child all the time? I remember when I was pregnant with the boys, many of my dreams revolved around my future children. I am finding adoption is similar to pregnancy in more ways than I realized.....

Pitter Patter Art

I wanted to share this really great t shirt I am ordering with Korea on it from Pitter Patter Art. I discovered this site from my new bloggy friend Kristi over at http://www.weloveourlucy.blogspot.com/ She wore an African t shirt on her trip to Africa for Lucy Lane. I contacted the creator of these shirts and she has made a South Korean one before - check it out! Her blog is http://pitterpatterart.wordpress.com/2009/09/21/taking-new-order-more/

I am having her make me one on a black t shirt with bright colors and a heart where Seoul is in Korea. :) The creator of these t shirts has an adopted baby herself. I can't wait to get my t shirt!!

Wordless Wednesday

Jack on the day his little brother was born!

1-600A

I have conquered you!! I sent it out at the post office this morning after making copies at the copy center with a very grumpy Anderson. He screamed at the post office because i would not let him eat a cracker off the floor or try to eat my pen I was trying to write with. Hallelujah I finally got it out. And I put we are traveling to get Leah on the petition, I hope if we change our minds and need an escort that does not create a problem.
I am so happy - I think I am finished with paperwork for now. I just have to wait for our fingerprinting appointment. Yay.

(The 1-600 A is an orphan petition to USCIS to be approved to bring our baby into the country by the US gov't. )

Please tell me I am not alone

My basement area where I do laundry is completely and utterly gross. I mean gross. Cobwebs on the ceiling, hanging down. Junk everywhere. Dirt everywhere. We basically moved in 2.5 years ago and never cleaned down there. Oh and the top of the steps leading down I have junk piled up. And at the bottom of the steps there is a deep freezer we have not even plugged in since we moved with several of Jack's potty seats stacked on that. Every time I do laundry I get this dreaded feeling. I rush thru it and try not to look around or have a spider drop down in my hair. Seriously. It is bad. I need to take a picture of it tomorrow. I have the upstairs organized to my liking and clean, (ok clean sometime) but that laundry area is bad bad bad. And with the homestudy coming up I have got to clean it. Why have I been living here 2.5 years without fixing it up? I guess the answer would be one toddler, one pregnancy, one infant, one jealous toddler, two crazy boys and no time! For some reason all my friends here seem to really have it together with their houses. Sigh. I will be really happy to get that area cleaned out!

Thanksgiving Pictures!

Jack and Anderson playing outside with their cousin Luke

Daniel's sister Rebekah, husband Matt and baby Paul

Daniel's Parents

Daniel telling his brother on the phone we are adopting!

Anderson playing

Daddy and Anderson

I was trying really hard to get good family pictures to send over to Korea with our information....... Of course I could never get both my kids to smile for the camera!

SWS

Does anyone out there have any info on Social Welfare Society Korea? Eastern seems to have so much info, including a website, but the SWS website is down. I would love info on it, if any of you adopted your baby thru there.

For a little education: There are 4 agencies in Korea American agencies go thru to adopt. I copied this from adopt Korea: http://www.adoptkorea.com/

Eastern Social Welfare Society (Eastern/ESWS)
Social Welfare Society (SWS)
Holt Children Services (Holt)
Korea Social Services (KSS
" These four primary Korean agencies are responsible for protecting and providing for its orphaned and abandoned children. They are answerable to the Korean government and only work with certain adoption agencies
who have been approved to place Korean children."

If you are curious on the Korean adoption process, adoptKorea is a wonderful website filled with geat information.

So if any of you do have info on SWS please let me know! Thanks!

2 months

I realized today it has been two months since we went to our first meeting about Korean adoption. It feels like longer than that, but I think that is because for a few months before that we were working on paperwork for a Chinese adoption. I feel like things are moving very very slowly with our homestudy, but I think I am just antsy and anxious for it to be finished so we can get the ball rolling. I heard from our social worker and we have our second meeting in a few weeks (finally) and I think the third and final visit can be set up really soon after that. This can be such a hard process because everything is so out of my hands to a point. I know God has a plan for our family and has little Leah safely in His care. But I just can't wait until the day we get our referral on our baby girl. And I have a picture - and can look at her!! Weekends are hard because I know I can't call our agency and bug them - sigh. I am sure they are happy to have a break from anxious adoptive parents like me!!
Happy Saturday everyone. I will now go stalk those of you who have brought your adoptive little ones home and sigh about how darn cute they are!!

Thanksgiving Day

We had a wonderful day yesterday. We told the rest of our family we are adopting and they were all very excited. And of course, had lots of questions we were happy to answer! I am so relieved everyone knows now, I feel like it is really happening.
Our social worker finally has everything on us she needs and we get to have our second homestudy in a few weeks. She is out of town all next week. I guess the holidays can slow down this process.......
Our first parenting meeting is this Thursday. We are required to attend 4, and the last one is the second week in January. I am really hoping to have our homestudy completed by then - even with the holidays. I will push it thru!!!
We have so much to be Thankful for this year - Happy Thanksgiving everyone!

Wonderful girls weekend!

I had such a fun fun time celebrating my 30th Birthday with my Mom, sister and Anderson in Williamsburg. I had an hour massage that was pure heaven. We shopped at the outlet mall, ate yummy food and had hot cider. The weather was perfect. It was so good to spend some quality time with my family. There was a Yankee Candle Village all decorated for Christmas and we got some good pictures there - here are some of my favorites!

Yay for a get-away!

My mom and sister are flying in tonight and we are taking Anderson and going on a girls get away to Williamsburg for the weekend to celebrate my 30th! I am so excited. AND we are going to a spa. ahhhhh......

I will share some pictures when we get home. A relaxing weekend is just what I need. Yay!!!

1-600A

Today I am trying to figure out how to file my 1-600A with USCIS. (United States Citizenship and Immigration Services) So I thought I would give a little info on what this is and how it fits into the international adoption process. This form is for "advance processing of orphan petition." According to the USCIS website "Advance Processing enables USCIS to adjudicate the application that relates to the qualifications of the applicant(s) as a prospective adoptive parent(s)." This can get quite confusing as there is a form 1-600 I will file that is to petition to classify an orphan as an immediate relative. This happens after we get our referral. For now, I am filing the 1-600A I "think" to get a leg up on things. Once USCIS receives my completed homestudy from our agency, they will send me a fingerprinting appointment card and Daniel and I go to get fingerprinted to be processed by the FBI. We will have to travel to USCIS main office to get fingerprinted. Now I do realize we just were fingerprinted locally. Honestly, if someone could clear up for me why we need to have it done twice that would be super. I am thinking the ones we just had done are to clear us for our homestudy approval, and the ones for USCIS are for approval from the US to bring an orphan into the country.
If you are wondering on the fee, the filing fee is $670.00 Ummm..wow. Then an additional $160 for fingerprinting or "biometric services."
Once we get "pre" approved by USCIS to bring an orphan into the country our agency can send all our paperwork to Korea and we wait to be matched with a little girl.
Okay, tomorrow on my list of things to do is go by Barnes for an informative book on this international adoption process. I am taking it one step at a time but would like to be more informed on the what and why of all these steps we have to go thru. One step at a time, right?

And in case others were fuzzy on what adjudicate means it is :To hear and settle (a case) by judicial procedure

Neat giveaway!

My new friend Kris is giving away this adorable little fella she hand-made! Go check it out -
http://lifeinthehammerhome.blogspot.com/2009/11/want-to-win-something-cute.html

He is a character from a Korean cartoon that I have to look into! She has an adorable little guy from Korea. :)

God moment

I stole this idea from Longing for Lucy Lane. If you have not readhttp://weloveourlucy.blogspot.com/2009/11/god-moments.html this blog - go read!!

I have had two God moments this week helping me realize this adoption is in God's perfect plan. The first was little Mia in the bookstore. The next happened the very next night. I had bought a dvd for $5 on sale at the Christian bookstore - "Christmas Child." I did not read the back cover or anything, just grabbed a good deal on a Christmas movie! We popped it in the player that evening and realized it was all about adoption. The main character was adopted as a baby and was struggling on not knowing who his birthmom was. As the movie played out, I was thinking to myself that I really hope this adoption is the right thing for our family, and I am not chasing a dream all by myself. THEN who but Stephen Curtis Chapman (personal hero) comes on screen with an asian daughter and begins to tell the main character all about his adoption. He tells him him and his wife freaked out right before they went to get their daughter, and they did not know if they would love this little baby as much as they loved their two biological son. (UMMMM...oh my gosh!) I got chill bumps. Then he went on to say that when they placed her in their arms it was instant love. (tears in my eyes) HOW special is this?? God speaking to me thru a $5 dvd. Amazing! And just another testiment to God's great love. Blessings friends - Elisabeth

30 years old

Today I am 30 years old. Wow. I am remaining calm. I am. New decade.

The boys made me sweet cards. Jack put the firefly off my cake on his card and Anderson squished a blueberry. lol. Daniel told them to put their favorite things on the cards.

So even though I am a new decade, and time is moving fast, I am so blessed to have such a wonderful family to share it with. I really really pray this time next year we have our referral on leah. Now that would make an awesome birthday gift!!

Fingerprints today!

Going to get fingerprinted. At least we know the drill - we did it for China before we switched countries. One less thing on my check list - that is always a relief!!!

I figured out that both of my referalls had indeed sent in their referall and our agency somehow never got them. Hmmmm... One friend even faxed and snail mailed it. Odd. Don't you think? The supervisor at our agency said she never has such problems with reference letters. Oh and she said I have bad luck. Awesome.

Today is a new day - and it is sunny out - a miracle after a week of rain and gloom. I think the park is calling after the fingerprints!! :) Happy Saturday!

Blessings in store....

I was feeling really down today as I ran out to the grocery store about our paperwork holding up our second homestudy. I ran into the Christian bookstore to get the Addison Road cd and I saw this group of little girls come walking in. One of them was a little Asian girl who was adorable. Daniel and I keep going back and forth about our two favorite names, Leah and Mia. Mia means wished for child. This little girl in the bookstore today just took my breath away, then when I heard her name, I knew it was a special sign for me. Her name was Mia. It has been so hard today and I have been feeling overwhelmed with all this paperwork and how things are so out of my hands with this adoption.
What a special blessing for me. !:)

Hold Up

Oh dear. I spoke to our social worker and she has not received two of the references and I know for a fact one of them sent it in a while ago. So I have to get that resolved. Also, she said she has to have our fingerprint cards before moving on with the second homestudy. WHAT? The other worker told me to get that done in Dec. so I have not done it yet. Now we are held up and I just sent in my CPS report this week. I think she has to have that in, also. AGH. Again I was told to not do that until a week ago. This is all so confusing and now I am so frazzled because everything is held up until this documentation gets in.
Phooey. :(
Frustrating!!!

143 Million

Why are people so afraid of adoption? This has been on my heart, and I seem to come into daily contact lately with people voicing their fears on adoption. There are over 143 MILLION orphans in the world. MILLION. Every 2 seconds another child becomes an orphan. 2 SECONDS. 42,000 new orphans EVERY DAY. Those numbers are staggering.
What is there to be afraid of? The love of a child? Unconditional love received? Certainly having a biological child in no means guarantees you a life of ease and a "perfect" child. I have had a conversation recently with a woman who can not fathom why I would adopt. To put it nicely she was blown away that I may not have a full medical history and full mental history on my child's family line. "I just would be too afraid to not have that history" were her words. WHAT? I basically felt like I had nothing left to say to that person after that. 143 Million. Children. In need of loving parents. I know that not everyone is called to adopt. But, there sure ought to be more called with these staggering numbers. Will you answer the call? Will you deny a child the love they so derserve? PLEASE consider the orphans. Consider the blessings that will come to you by being so priveledged to get to LOVE one of God's children.
143 Million. Where will you go?

A really big day!!! (from Oct. 2, 2009)

Leah we are waiting for you! Here goes our international application all wrapped in pink with a flower. One of the happiest days!

Trying to catch everyone up

Okay, I brought over some old posts I likes and thought explained some things. Basically, we are adoptiong a baby girl from Korea and are waiting for our 2nd homstudy meeting. God is good!

Love, Monday Style (Nov. 11, 2009)

I feel like I am going out of my mind trying to get all this paperwork in. My deadline for myself was Friday. Did not happen. Daniel almost got his biography completed last night. I just have a right mind to finish it up myself for him this morning. I have to run to the Dmv today for my 5 year check. We are almost there – just have to get Daniel to do that tomorrow. And finish all the documenting for financial stuff. He says he is working on it……hmmmm……..I have to say if our homestudy agency does not set up the parenting meetings soon I am just going to educate myself and tell them they were too slow. They promised me a call last Monday with the dates and times. I called Thursday and the director was out of the office until today. Guess who’s phone will be ringing promplty at 9am??Do I care if I am a pain to Daniel and them? NO! Hurry people hurry. I have a baby halfway around the world waiting on me!!God bless coffee, also this morning. Anderson kept me up half the night. We must do something about that child and his sleeping. I am terrible, terrible about sleep training. But I think I am at the point of “enough”. I know Anderson needs the rest just as much as I do. That is what I will mantra to myself tonight.Okay, let us have a verse since I seem to need it today.Honor the LORD with your wealth, with the firstfruits of all your crops…— Proverbs 3:9 (NIV)I pulled this verse from google verse of the day. I like to do that sometimes. It is actually really cool. Yesterday I decided to sponsor an orphanage in China monthly. I did it by way of http://www.lovewithoutboundaries.com/.Go check out their website. I gave to an orphanage that desperately needed money for formula after an influx of sick babies. And please understand, I am not giving myself a pat on the back. I wanted to share about love without boundaries. It was started by a group of adoptive parents that went to China to adopt, and discovered a little boy they wanted to help. This group provides funding for surgeries for orphans and helps get orphans in China out of institutions and into foster families. I would love it if you would pass this link on to your friends and pray for these children. I know I have many bloggy friends who are adopting, and this cause will be close to your hearts, as well.So that is my Monday, Love style. I will be very nice on the phone with our agency, I will I will.

Why Korea? (from Oct. 15, 2009)

I have been thinking this morning on how to answer questions about why we chose Korea. My answer will be “Because that is where the Lord led us and that is where our daughter will be born.” I have already had a few “why not adopt from the States” comments. To those I will respond that the Lord leads different people different ways in adoption. If everyone adopted from the States, who would care for the orphans in other countries? And if we all went to Africa, who would care for those in China? And if none of us adopted domestically, where would I be? (I was adopted as an infant) My point being, these comments gave me pause, and at first I felt guilty for going outside our borders. Then my HEART and the heart of HIM spoke to me. We are being called to Korea by HIM. He has our daughter named and meant for our family. We may have no idea if she is conceived, but my God knows and has angels around her. He will know her today, the day she is born, and will keep her in His care until we can care for her here on earth. And that, my friends, gives me the peace to be able to hold tight and trust that our daughter will be safely taken care of until the day comes that I will finally be able to count her sweet toes, kiss her cheeks and tell her just how much we all love her.
(I think it is so cool that as soon as I hit publish, my phone rang from the head of the Korea program at our international agency. Coincidence, I think not!)

from Sept. 29, 2009

The meeting last night went wonderful! We were the only couple – lol. We were really late, too. The lady was just leaving when I ran in the door. Whew!!!!! The coordinator was so kind and she talked with us for an hour and a half and just raved about the Korean program. I had a really hard time not totally tearing up when she was describing the process with getting the picture of our daughter, waiting for her, then picking her up from the airport. (with Korea, you can choose to have the baby escorted to the States, and with 2 small kids of our own and my husband’s company, it would be really hard for us to travel.) My husband is ready to go and said he was getting excited last night hearing the woman describe everything. I am filling out the application after i write this and am sending it off hopefully by tomorrow, then we will be assigned our social worker and get our first homestudy meeting set up.I AM SO EXCITED!!!!! !!!!!!! The Lord is good!
Psalm 118:24 – “This is the day the LORD has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it.”

Re-Launch!

Okay, I am re-launching my site here!
I will be moving over my "things" from wordpress over the next few days. I changed the name of my blog, too. :) How do you like the new name?
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